A good multipurpose styling product for men are molding pastes. They're easy to use on damp or dry hair. Just rub a small amount into hands and then distribute through hair. We recommend the following:
Fudge Matte Hed $25.50
Redken Work Hard Paste $35.00
If you're wanting a firmer wet look hold then a gel would be better:
Redken Stand Tough $35.00
American Crew Firm Hold gel $29.00